Sex & the Tantra Sydney Evolution (Premature Ejaculation or ED?)

Your Sexy Mojo Update

by the wonderful Taryn, www.tantricsexualhealing.com
Hi everyone, how are you going in the lead up to the silly season?

It’s been a manic few months for me, and I’ve been aware that many of you are also feeling the heat; work stress, higher anxiety, no time for sex…

Yes that’s right! No time, or energy – for sex!

Many of us are either too tired or too busy to get really intimate with our partners, and as such the energy centres become blocked as sexual regions become stagnant. Kundalini energy emanates throughout our bodies when we’re open and relaxed enough to embrace it, but what about when we’re not? Sex energy supports our endocrine system and enhances our capacity to feel at peace. Stress and or fatigue are significant contributing factors that affect male sexual desire as well as women, and these issues are not always addressed with one’s GP.

In regard to men’s health, I’ve had numerous calls lately from men who’ve been struggling with premature ejaculation, telling me that when sex does finally happen, they’re out of the gate and done in seconds! Having recently attended the Australasian Institute of Sexual Health Medicine Conference last month, I’m well aware of the impact on emotional and mental health for men who suffer with this problem. Premature ejaculation may be the first symptom telling you that your lifestyle has become stressful. Dr Michael Lowy, a Men’s Health physician I met when working on the Viagra launch and Men’s Health Campaigns, presented on the latest data from a study on Premature Ejaculation (PE) and Erectile Dysfunction (ED);  prevalence and attitudes in the Asia Pacific Region.

It concluded that Premature Ejaculation (PE) is more prevalent than ED. It also stated that only around 40% with PE self-reported (that is, these men were able to recognise PE as a problem and speak up – as opposed to those men with ED who may have been less likely to report it & were usually older). (J. Sex Med 2012;9:454-465 McMahon et al.) Okay, too much info? Basically it’s telling us that the findings are culturally significant, also highlighting the impact of stress and lifestyle factors.

Tantra is renowned for assisting in the alleviation of these symptoms as it supports change inlifestyle behaviours,  empowering men in reinstating the natural flow of physical connection and control. Please, feel free to ask me more about PE and/or ED when you book in for a session.

On the subject of men’s health, the AISHM conference was extremely informative! Bettina Arndt, the renowned Sex Therapist and author, presented on prostate cancer and surgery, and how there’s not enough advice given on penile rehabilitation. Tantra is an ideal post operative means for support during this process of healing.

Right then, enough of the psycho-social babble; let’s create some esoteric balance here! Somatic (hands on, bodily felt, experiential) touch and Tantra are gaining kudos in what’s been a conservative area, and as I’ve slowly eased into this world of Tantric Sexual Healing, coming on out from a decade of study in Psychology, Coaching, Astrology and Tarot plus a sojourn as an Escort (yes, I loved it…yes, it was empowering, yes…this is where I learned the most about men, women and our sexual/emotional nature), it’s become increasingly comfortable and exciting for me to take on clients who wish to explore all aspects of the self. It’s clear we’re well informed about sex and sexual attitudes, and yet its proven to be of benefit for my clients, who are still a little tentative about speaking to a GP or Psychologist, to come and see me where they may feel more comfortable to talk about difficult or embarrassing aspects of sex, love, lust, shame, desire, dysfunction.

Tantric sexual healing and intimacy coaching is all about combining my skills with experience; the erotic side of our nature is inherently nervous about showing up in conventional forums, however my practice allows the shadow side to be met without judgement. Here we can explore the positive elements purely for nurturing and rejuvenating purposes – hence tantric ‘massage’, or together we can go a little deeper into the erotic, pleasurable realm. There’s no shame in knowing one’s body and expanding upon it’s capacity to feel excited and aroused! In fact, it’s your human right. There may be reasons that you aren’t feeling excited and aroused, which is why as a therapist I can assist you in ascertaining what’s going on. Have you recently experienced a relationship breakdown, or death of a loved one? This can have a tremendous impact on your sex drive. Or are you looking to explore your own depths, venturing into your energy centres to understand the power and arousal you feel but cannot control? I’ve seen quite a few people this year who have issues with porn addiction, and some men who’ve attended spiritual events, only to feel like it’s tapped into something that they don’t quite understand – energy dispersed or projected around with no grounding or release!

This is where I fit in. My work is not only conservatively attuned, I’m also quite esoterically inspired. Often I can get a sense of a clients life journey simply by observing body language, or sensing energy that shifts to areas as yet not understood by the person. The body is an amazing vehicle, and once aligned with the spirit it can alleviate the mental ego stimulation that keeps many of us trapped in patterns that don’t always serve our higher self.

I’m so passionate about our sexual presence and the huge impact it has on the way we live, breath and communicate with others during our lifetime, so let’s get back to the bedroom. How is your sex life these days? Are you keen to tune up your body and soul, ready for a more ecstatic New Year? Are you curious about Tantra and my tarot, astro mapping capabilities? If so, let’s get started! I look forward to hearing from you soon….

(Ask about my Tantric Sexual & Sensual Mini Retreat Sessions; details shortly)

Namaste
Taryn x